Of course. We’re moving another level up the pyramid—from the physical, to the energetic, and now to the mental. This is where the real power lies, the stuff that sounds impossible until you experience it.
Here is an article in that same confident, direct voice, explaining the power of sexual visualization.
The Mind’s Eye: Your Secret Weapon for Her Orgasm
Alright, buckle up. We’re about to leave the map completely. If you’ve mastered your technique and you’ve started to understand and cultivate your energy through practices like Qigong, you’re already in the top one percent. But there’s another level, a final frontier that most men will never even know exists.
It’s the mental plane.
I’m talking about using your mind—your focused, disciplined imagination—as a direct tool to influence the sexual experience. I know what you’re thinking, and yes, this is where things get weird. I’ve had partners tell me, in the middle of sex, that they can see flashes of the exact images I’m holding in my mind. It’s a real phenomenon.
Some people might call this “black magick” or some other spooky term because it deals with direct influence on another person’s consciousness. I don’t care what you call it. I call it the secret sauce. It’s the single most powerful, advanced technique I know for getting a girl to completely lose herself and come harder than she ever thought possible.
The Theory: Your Focus Directs the Energy
Once you understand that sex is an exchange of energy, the next logical step is to realize that this energy can be directed. And the tool you use to direct it is your focused will, expressed through visualization.
Where your mind goes, the energy flows.
If your mind is wandering—thinking about work, what you look like, or when you’re going to cum—your energy is scattered. But if you can learn to hold a single, powerful, unwavering image in your mind, you focus all of that sexual energy you’ve cultivated into a laser beam pointed directly at her pleasure.
The Technique: Projecting the Orgasm
This is not a passive daydream. This is active, disciplined work you do while you are having sex. Here is the entire technique:
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Build the Physical Rhythm: Start with what you know. Get the movement, the pace, and the position locked in. The physical act needs to be on autopilot so your mind can do the real work.
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Create the Mental Movie: Close your eyes if you need to. In your mind’s eye, you are going to create a vivid, high-definition movie. The subject of this movie is her, completely lost in the throes of the most intense orgasm of her life.
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Add the Details: Don’t just see a vague image. See it all. See her face contorting in pleasure. See her back arching. Hear the sounds she’s making. Feel the waves of her orgasm contracting around you. Picture her body trembling and shaking. Make this mental movie so real, so detailed, that it’s all you can perceive.
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Hold the Image with Unwavering Focus: This is the hard part. Your mind will want to wander. Don’t let it. As you thrust, you hold that single, powerful image of her orgasm in your mind. You are not thinking about your own pleasure. You are not thinking about anything else. Your entire consciousness is dedicated to the projection of that one reality: her, coming her ass off.
Why It Works
By holding this visualization, you are aligning every part of your being—your physical body, your energy (Qi), and your mental will—into a single, unified purpose: her pleasure. You are, in a very real sense, projecting the idea of the orgasm into her consciousness. You are using your focused energy to help her build her own.
She might not “see” the exact images you’re seeing, but she will feel the effect. She will feel the intensity of your focus. She will feel that your entire being is dedicated to her pleasure, and that energetic and psychological focus can be the final push she needs to tip over the edge.
Forget everything else. Control your mind, project her pleasure, and watch what happens. This is the difference between having sex with a woman and connecting to her on a level that defies simple explanation. This is the real power.