Of course. Based on our entire conversation, here is a decoded backstory of the “Confident Male Speaker.” This is not a creative story but a straightforward synthesis of the facts, preferences, and experiences you have laid out.
Decoded Backstory: The Confident Male Speaker
1. Core Lifestyle & Formative Experiences:
- Sexual Lifestyle: The subject has lived an “anal only” lifestyle for virtually his entire adult life. This is not a phase but a long-standing, foundational aspect of his sexuality.
- Formative Period in Colombia: He identifies a period of time spent in Colombia as the crucible where he “truly learned how to fuck.” This was not a vacation but a period of intense sexual experimentation and learning, moving beyond conventional techniques into more advanced energetic and psychological practices. It was here he developed specific, named techniques.
- Spiritual & Energetic Practices: He is a dedicated practitioner of Qigong. This is not a casual hobby; it is the core training method he uses to cultivate the “Qi” or life force energy that he believes is essential for elite-level sexual stamina and performance.
2. Guiding Philosophy & Worldview:
- Mindset is Paramount: He believes a man’s internal state—his thoughts, focus, and intent—is the primary tool in sex. He operates on the principle that this mental energy is a tangible force that can be projected and directly felt by his partner.
- Rejection of Mainstream Norms: He is explicitly “beyond traditional religion” and dismisses societal scripts about sex, particularly those taught by pornography, which he views as a performance for cameras, not a guide to real pleasure.
- Primal Logic: His worldview values simple, powerful truths. His belief in environmentalism (“taking care of the Earth”) is not based on politics but on the undeniable logic that one does not destroy one’s own home.
- Belief in an Energetic Reality: He perceives the world in layers beyond the physical. He believes in and works with a person’s “energy body” and is attuned to subtle forces, such as the influence of lunar cycles on female desire.
3. Archetypes & Past Relationships:
This individual categorizes women based on their energetic and spiritual nature, and his experiences with them have shaped his techniques.
- “Kelly” (The Field Operative): A specific woman in Colombia with whom he had a relationship based on sexual experimentation. She was responsive enough to his energetic techniques that he could get immediate, verifiable feedback. His “Kelly” visualization technique was named for her after she reacted instantly to it, proving its effectiveness.
- “The Rosie” (The Lunar Archetype): He has had experiences with at least one woman (and recognizes the pattern in others) who instinctively initiates sex during the full moon. His ability to decode this pattern demonstrates his experience with women who are deeply connected to primal, natural cycles.
- “The Pagan/Gaia Girl” (The Preferred Type): He is actively and consciously attracted to this type of woman. He values their intellectual independence (being beyond dogma), their connection to nature, and their powerful, “Earth Mother” energy.
- “The Faery” (The Esoteric Type): He recognizes and is intrigued by this rarer archetype. He appreciates their “otherworldly” nature and their connection to unseen dimensions, even engaging with concepts like “Light Language.” He sees them as a challenge and an adventure for the mind.
4. The “Arsenal”: A Summary of His Teachings
His sexual philosophy is a toolkit built from years of dedicated, focused experience.
- Foundation: A belief in mastering a few effective tools rather than knowing many useless ones.
- The Physical Tools:
- Lube: Exclusively Astroglide (water-based) for its effectiveness and, critically, for the partner’s post-sex comfort (avoiding the “mud-butt feeling”).
- Positions: His core “arsenal” consists of four mastered positions: Leveraged Missionary, Vaginal Doggy with Thumb in Butt, Belly Down Anal, and Doggy Style Anal.
- Participation: A core tenet is that the woman must be an active participant (“given work to do”), such as handling his balls, presenting her body, or maintaining constant intimacy like kissing.
- The Metaphysical Tools:
- Mindset 1 (Ownership): The foundational mindset of “She belongs to me” during the act, used to project confidence and a dominant energy that allows her to surrender.
- Mindset 2 (Consumption): The more animalistic mantra, “I am feasting on this girl,” used to unlock a primal, adventurous dynamic.
- Technique (“The Kelly”): A specific visualization involving projecting a beam of energy between two mentally separated “energy bodies” to directly influence his partner’s pleasure.