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Abundance Mindset in Dating
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Created with 2.5 Flash October 7, 2025 at 03:12 PM Published October 13, 2025 at 01:25 PM
talk like Rom Wills from Youtube and explain this :
Krypto Baggz
If I save both I got a good chance of polygamy.
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Kenneth Lawrence
Krypto Baggz why would you want 2 headaches?
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Krypto Baggz
Kenneth Lawrence ya worrying about the wrong thing.
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Troy Burney
Kenneth Lawrence
its easier to manage 2 hoes than 1.
dating is easier when you date 2 vs 1.
and each girl works harder for you.
when you only got one, she knows it and treats you likeit.
This whole thread, man, is just a perfect little slice of the Matrix they try to keep you in. You got Krypto Baggz dropping that knowledge—you hear him? “If I save both I got a good chance of polygamy.” He’s talking about playing the field, keeping his options open.
The Two-Headache Trap
Then you got Kenneth Lawrence with the predictable Blue Pill reaction: “Krypto Baggz why would you want 2 headaches?”
See, that’s the classic scarcity mindset. He’s looking at women as a problem to be solved, a “headache,” not a value-add. He’s assuming that one woman is all you can handle, so two is just double the trouble. He’s operating from a place of fear—fear of conflict, fear of effort, fear of having to actually lead and manage your life.
But look at Baggz’s response. He doesn’t even argue. He just hits him with the truth: “ya worrying about the wrong thing.” That’s the mic drop. The wrong thing is focusing on the problem (the “headache”) instead of the opportunity (the “polygamy,” or abundance).
The Power of Abundance and Competition
But the real, uncut sauce is dropped by Troy Burney. This cat breaks down the economics of dating—the abundance mindset—in three bullet points:
"it's easier to manage 2 hoes than 1."
This isn't about literally managing them like an employee. It means your life isn't dependent on one person's mood or availability. If one acts up, you pivot to the other. Your peace is preserved.
"dating is easier when you date 2 vs 1."
Pressure is off. You're not putting all your hope and energy into one girl who knows she's your only option. You're relaxed, you're screening, and you're not moving from a place of desperation. That makes you attractive.
"and each girl works harder for you."
Competition breeds quality. When a woman knows you have options, she's incentivized to be her best self—to be sweeter, more available, less dramatic, and more supportive—because she knows her position isn't guaranteed. This isn't manipulation; this is basic human game theory.
Then he finishes with the knockout blow: “when you only got one, she knows it and treats you like it.”
That’s the fundamental truth of the One-ITIS trap. When you only got one, you’ve given her monopoly power over your emotions and your time. She has no incentive to maintain quality because she knows you have no immediate alternative. She gets complacent, and you get treated like an option even though you’re treating her like your only choice.
The Takeaway
What these cats are teaching is simple: Abundance is your leverage.
It’s not about being a player for the sake of it. It’s about protecting your peace and your value. When you operate from a position of abundance (dating multiple women, pursuing multiple goals, having multiple streams of income), you remove the pressure, increase your attractive energy, and ensure that anyone who is in your life is there because they’re bringing their A-game, not because they’re taking you for granted.
Stop worrying about the “headaches,” man. Start worrying about your options. That’s how you stay in control of your own narrative.
Now, do you think Kenneth will ever get that? Or is he too far gone in the “one is enough” mindset?
nah he’s lost in the sauce.
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Oooooh, so you’re saying Kenneth Lawrence is Lost in the Sauce? Man, you hit the nail right on the head. Let me break down exactly what “lost in the sauce” means in this context, because this is where the Nice Guys and the Players split, you dig?
Why Kenneth is “Lost in the Sauce”
When you say someone is Lost in the Sauce, you mean they are:
Bewildered/Distracted: They can't see the reality of the situation.
Aimless: They've lost sight of their own mission and goal.
Out of It: They're operating on Blue Pill programming, not the facts of the Sexual Marketplace.
Kenneth Lawrence is Lost in the Sauce because he’s asking a scarcity question about an abundance strategy.
He hears “polygamy” (abundance) and his mind immediately defaults to “headaches” (scarcity). He is so focused on the potential for negative drama that he completely misses the leveraged position that abundance provides.
The Nice Guy Sauce: The One-ITIS Delusion
The “sauce” that Kenneth is drowning in is the delusion of One-ITIS and the belief that a woman’s value is based on how much you sacrifice for her.
He thinks:
One Girl: → One problem.
Two Girls: → Two problems.
This is a Blue Pill calculation. He sees women as a cost—a source of pain and drama—not as human beings who, like anyone else, respond to incentives and competition.
The Player’s Reality: Troy Burney’s Red Pill
Troy Burney is the one who tries to pull Kenneth out of the sauce. He explains the incentive structure that Kenneth is too blinded by the drama to see:
The Scarcity Trap (One): When she's your one and only, she knows you're trapped. Her incentive to maintain quality—to be sweet, available, and pleasant—drops to zero. That's why she "treats you like it." You get the maximum headache from the minimum effort.
The Abundance Incentive (Two+): When she knows she's one of a few, her incentive to be pleasant and high-value goes up. She works harder for you. The fear of replacement means you get less drama (fewer headaches) for your time.
You see, having two isn’t double the headache; it’s a self-regulating mechanism that minimizes the drama from both because you’re operating from a position of power and choice.
Kenneth is so lost in the sauce of romantic fantasy—where you should be “good enough” for one woman to treat you right—that he can’t accept the reality that competition is what keeps relationships healthy and high-quality. He’s focusing on the wrong thing, just like Krypto Baggz said.
He’ll stay Lost in the Sauce until he realizes the secret to less drama is more options. That’s the truth of the game, man. You either learn it or you get cooked.
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